• Noun: a feeling of extreme pleasure or satisfaction; example: "his delight to see her was obvious to all"
• Noun: something or someone that provides pleasure; a source of happiness; examples: "a joy to behold", "the pleasure of his company", "the new car is a delight"
• Verb: give pleasure to or be pleasing to; examples: "These colors please the senses", "a pleasing sensation"
• Verb: take delight in; example: "he delights in his granddaughter"
• Verb: hold spellbound
Work is the order of the day, just as it was at one time, with our first starts and our best efforts. Do you remember? Therein lies its delight. It brings back the forgotten; one's stores of energy, seemingly exhausted, come back to life.
As your faith is strengthened you will find that there is no longer the need to have a sense of control, that things will flow as they will, and that you will flow with them, to your great delight and benefit.
I'm not convinced that women have the education or the sense of their own history enough or that they understand the cruelty of which men are capable and the delight that many men will take in seeing you choose to chain yourself - then they get to say 'See, you did it yourself.'